Shame: The Hidden Virus of the Human Soul How it infects us, controls us, and how we begin to heal “I’m not good enough.” “If they really knew me, they’d leave.” “I’m a failure — not just at something, but as someone.” These aren’t just passing thoughts. They are the voice of shame — ancient, […]
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This is the final part of the RESENTMENT trilogy. Here I provide two different guides containing detox tips. The guides are formed in such a way considering the different situations of people ie working at home and working in office environment. The guides are respectively named as Guide A and Guide B. Resentment Detox Guides for
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Though the trilogy on Resentment is designed as three stand alone blogs, I would suggest that serial reading well serve better. This blog is going to be a little longer. Let’s dive. Resentment Detox – Case Studies and A 7 Day Detox Plan Resentment Part 2 of 3 This second blog is meant to ground
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I understand that the bitterness one carries in mind affects him/her negatively in more than one ways. It leaves an indelible mark on the psyche. Moreover the ember keeps burning deep inside under several layers of made up masks of happiness. Resentment in effect is raising a toast of poison to harm your enem(y)ies. Since I realise
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Why You Feel Stuck in Life (And What to Do When Nothing Feels Right) Feeling stuck in life is one of the most common and least talked-about human experiences. You wake up. You do what you are supposed to do. You function. But inside, something feels off. Not dramatic. Not broken. Just… empty, heavy, directionless.
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How to Deal With Emotional Exhaustion in Modern Life Emotional exhaustion is not weakness. It is what happens when a human nervous system is asked to live like a machine. Most people think exhaustion comes only from physical overwork. In reality, many people who are emotionally exhausted are not doing “too much” — they
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I have written about overthinking earlier too. (Link https://kvshan.com/2025/04/how- to-stop-overthinking-everything.html). But the topic crops up every now and then. I think it’s very rare that someone is spared from overthinking at one point or the other in the stretch of life. Some even don’t know that they are overthinking because the trait is so deeply engraved in their psyche
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Ichi-go Ichi-e — One Moment, One Life A story about doing one thing at a time The old clock on the wall did not tick. It breathed. At least, that is how Arun felt it that morning—slow, patient, unconcerned with deadlines. He noticed this only because his phone was dead. No notifications. No vibration. No digital
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